“They pulled me off the account.
And now I have to take some professional conduct course.
They’re behaving like I’m some kind of threat.”
I looked up slowly. “Are you a threat, Wells?”
“What?! How could you ask me that?”
I set the fork down.
“Hostile. Is that how you’d describe yourself?”
He paused, then shook his head.
“It was a joke, Briar.
The hand thing, the guys laughed!”
“Talia didn’t think it was funny.”
“You told her something, didn’t you?” he hissed, his jaw clenched.
“Of course you did! You always have to be the little victim.”
“I didn’t say anything unnecessary.
I just answered a question,” I raised an eyebrow.
“That’s the same thing, Briar!”
“No,” I said. “You wanted me silent.
That’s not the same as loyal.”
He stared at me like I’d morphed into someone unrecognizable.
“You’re really blowing up our life over a pizza party?”
I stood and carried my bowl to the sink.
The cast clunked against the edge as I rinsed it out.
“No,” I said. “I’m walking away from a marriage where my injury became a punchline.”
He opened his mouth, then shut it again.
“I can’t live like this, Wells. I need things to change.”
And that’s exactly what I did.
I started living differently — quietly, but deliberately.
I called the bank and opened my own account.
I moved half of our savings, just enough for a landing. I removed myself from our shared credit card.
I canceled the garden service.
I took my towels, my charger, my toiletries, and moved them into the guest room.
The next week, I called a lawyer. I told her that I wasn’t ready to file yet, but I needed to know my options.
I wrote everything down in a notebook: dates, names, and moments I had brushed off for too long.
And of course, Wells noticed.
“You’re being dramatic,” he said one night, leaning on the guest room doorframe.
“What even is all this?”
I didn’t look up from the notebook.
“Over what?
A joke?” he huffed.
“No,” I said, lifting my eyes to meet his. “Over a pattern of selfishness and obnoxious behavior.”
He didn’t have a comeback for that. He just turned and left, muttered something under his breath that I chose not to hear.
The night before I left, I was standing in the kitchen with a mug of cocoa.
I stared out the window into the backyard, watching the porch light flicker.
Wells came in and leaned on the counter like it was just another evening.
“Briar,” he said.
“I liked how things were. Simple and traditional.
Easy.”
I turned slowly.
“You mean when I handled everything, even in a cast, while you let your friends laugh at me?”
“You loved doing things for us, don’t deny it.”
“No,” I replied. “I loved being loved, Wells.
And somewhere down the line, you forgot how to do that.”
“Why’d you have to embarrass me like that?”
I paused, letting the silence stretch.
“I didn’t embarrass you.
You just revealed who you really are.”
He didn’t follow me when I walked past.
And the next morning, when I zipped my suitcase with one hand. It felt like freedom.
My wrist healed, but my marriage didn’t survive the break.
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